近日，由于SSC原则的广泛推广，许多新人爱上了BDSM，并希望找到适合自己的玩法。但是，什么才是正确的入圈方式？在本文中，我们从BDSM新人的角度出发，梳理了一些关键术语，旨在帮助大家更快速、更有方向地进入这个圈子，建立健康的互动关系。
DT是什么？
DT，Dirty Talk的缩写，意思是情境化的、得到合意的情趣语言，可以包括命令、欣赏、羞耻表演等，目的是激起兴奋，而非损害一个人的尊严。与日常骂人不同，DT必须建立在相互理解、沟通和之前设置好边界的基础上，例如安全词。这样才能更健康、互相尊重。
BDSM的核心原则——SSC原则
Big issue in the circle is about being ethical and safe. All practical actions should follow the SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) principle. It means that before doing anything, both sides need to agree in a clear way and know exactly what is going on. This principle is the foundation for BDSM—even the most extreme practices cannot go against it.
BDSM新人入门指南：before you start
如果你是刚接触BDSM，并会对这类别名感到陌生，要切记不要仓促尝试。对新人来说，学好术语是最基本的。下表是核心BDSM术语表：
| 术语 | 解析 |
|---|---|
| BDSM | BDSM describes various patterns of human sexual behavior that involve BDSM themes like bondage, discipline, Dominance, submission, and sadism. |
| Dominant (Dom) | A role with control in a power dynamic or in a scene; responsibility is based on mutually agreed consent. |
| Submissive (Sub) | A role where an individual consciously chooses to be controlled, allowing another to make decisions. |
| Safe word | Predefined words or phrases used with a partner to express discomfort or to stop a scene. |